Jericho Pilar, author of "No fear. In business and in life" (2008) gives us an interesting book, thoughtful and courageous, brave especially since it addresses a rare issue in "business conversations": fear. Fear of eviction, fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of loss of power and, above all, fear of change. But all his speech, his words and his approach are essentially male: fears focus on others and the relationship the person in public, speaking in the masculine, male and gives examples quoted historical distinguished male, if I pulled are 110 citations of which only 3-and I have not discounted, what a shame! - put words to Voices women. One is Pilar Gómez Acebo (Vice-President of the English Confederation of Directors and Executives), who also signed the foreword of the book where we push the value of "trust" as one of the keys to future success. Pilar
Jericho is not the first that addresses this issue, and so did Carmen García Ribas "I have fear, charisma and leadership through the management of fear" (2003) and "Maripili syndrome. The fear of women not to be loved" (2006). In this second book focuses on one of the quintessential women's fears: the fear of not being loved (based on centuries of assigning roles where women we have to be through the other). According to Carmen García women have fear of not being loved, while men tend not to be somebody. His speech refers to all women somo "maripilis" all have that fear of not receiving love and why we use rituals of submission. But no judge this deterministic approach I prefer your choice option: the alternative to be Maripili is to be strategic, to know oneself and be aware of what is our situation in every moment of life to choose teva our best way.
So following the practice of Jericho Pilar quoted, but this time giving female voice, I prefer the words of these three women:
"The alternative is to be Maripili yourself permission to be yourself" Carmen García
"The best of each (one) is always born in what he does grow to (the) other, if not the very successful" Pilar Gómez
"The future belongs to those who are capable of love, whether it is a company as a person, provided that dares to break the rules of the game and grow on itself (a) "Pilar Jericho. And
an image inspired a thousand words, treat yourself to this video: "to fear ... just move on"
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